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  When you offer a choice and your child disagrees

When you offer a choice and your child disagrees

You have offered your child a choice but she didn’t respond or doesn’t want either option you have presented.  Believe it or not, this is an opportunity to teach your child that she is responsible for what happens to him.  

October 20, 2025

 

What to Do When Your Child Is Not Listening to You

 The boys climb to the top of the slide and come down headfirst. Mom fumes, “They never listen to me! They are so disrespectful.” Then she yells at them, “I told you to stop going down headfirst!” Immediately, she feels terrible because now her sons are not listening to her AND she just yelled at them, even though she promised herself she was not going to do it. 

October 13, 2025

  Mom dressing her daughter

When Your Child is Refusing to Do What She is Capable of Doing: Skill vs. Will

Being cooperative and successful is a combination of having the skill and having the will.  Since Anna has dressed herself in the past and usually does so with little to no prompting when she “can’t dress herself” it’s pretty obvious she’s lacking the will. The question of course is why? 

October 6, 2025
 

Words to Use When Your Child is Feeling Anxious

How do you respond when your child refuses to go upstairs by himself, cries if you attempt to leave him before he’s asleep at bedtime, or doesn’t want to go to an activity you know he will love once he gets there? When a child is experiencing anxiety, he demonstrates it in his behavior. Often that behavior is a vehement protest, but sometimes, it is a complete “shut down,” in which he is incapable of doing things he could do just yesterday. No matter which response, it is tempting to simply avoid the difficult situation, but anxiety increases when situations are avoided. Instead, it is important to gently nudge your child forward, empowering and supporting him to take on this challenge. Your words and actions make a difference.

September 28, 2025

  Children, Chores and Conflict: Do They Really have to Go Together?

Children, Chores and Conflict: Do They Really have to Go Together?

“Pick up your shoes.”  “Clean your room.”  “Put away your toys.”  “Set the table.” Whenever, these directives cross your mind, odds are an internal battle begins.

September 21, 2025

 

Begin the Day Taking Care of YOU. Here are 4 Tips for a Peaceful Morning Wake-up

Begin the Day Taking Care of YOU.  Here are 4 Tips for a Peaceful Morning Wake-up

September 14, 2025
 

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